Nap Time Trades: How I Manage Day Trading with a Toddler
When I first started trading, my baby was barely 6 months old.
Let me tell you — I lost $2,000 changing a diaper and $1,500 making my husband coffee.
Yes, you read that right.
Nothing humbles you faster than missing a stop-loss because you were elbow-deep in baby wipes.
But I kept going.
Because the beauty of trading from home is that you can build it around your family — even if your “office” looks like a playroom exploded.
Fast-forward to now: my son’s almost 4, a full-on climber, and I sometimes make trades with him on my shoulders or literally trying to scale my head like I’m a jungle gym.
It doesn’t even faze me anymore.
This is just my version of a trading floor.
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🍼 Survival Kit for Trading with a Baby
Here’s what kept me sane (and mostly profitable) in those early days:
Diapers & wipes within arm’s reach – I wasn’t running to grab them mid-trade.
Breakfast, juice boxes & snacks prepped early – the fewer interruptions, the better.
My Starbucks in hand by 9:30am ET – because I refuse to start trading without caffeine.
Multiple mini-activities set up – tummy time mat, play gym, bouncer seat. One activity never lasted long enough, so I had backups.
Pro tip: set everything up before the market opens so you aren’t scrambling once things get moving.
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👶 Toddler Trading Strategies (a.k.a. Chaos Control)
Trading with a toddler is a whole new level — they have opinions, questions, and the ability to climb.
Here’s what helps me now:
Independent Play Stations:
Rotating bins with toys he hasn’t seen in a while. Keeps him busy long enough for me to catch a setup.
Safe Climbing Options:
I gave him a foam climbing set so he can do his best Spider-Man can do his thing somewhere safe while I watch my charts.
Visual Timer:
Toddlers don’t get “five minutes.”
But they do understand watching a timer count down. I use a visual timer for “Mommy’s chart time.”
Music or Story Time:
Spotify playlists or an audiobook he likes = quiet trading session for me.
Snacks (Again):
A toddler with snacks is a toddler not hanging off my head — enough said.
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💡 Bonus: Naps = Power Hours
Nap time is GOLDEN. If your kid still naps, that’s when you can:
Do a deeper market review
Journal trades
Plan the next day
Breathe
Once my son dropped his nap, I started waking up earlier to get my pre-market prep done in peace.
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🧘 The Mindset Shift
The biggest change wasn’t just logistics — it was mindset.
Instead of getting frustrated that trading felt “distracted,” I reframed it:
This is why I trade — to be home with my son, to be here for the chaos, to sip Starbucks while watching him grow up.
So yes, sometimes a winning trade takes longer to catch because I had to change a diaper or rescue someone from climbing the bookshelf — but that’s okay.
Because I didn’t choose trading to escape my life.
I chose trading to live my life — with him right here.
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Your turn:
Moms, what’s the craziest thing you’ve done while trying to trade?
(If you’ve ever placed an order with a toddler on your head, we should start a club. 😂)
Tag: AI
Trading Lingo Explained Like You’re Texting Your BFF
Okay, so you’ve finally decided to peek into this whole “trading” thing — but the minute you open a chart or watch a video, you’re hit with words like VWAP, strike price, support, resistance, theta decay… and suddenly it feels like you’re back in math class wishing you had paid more attention.
Don’t worry. I got you.
Let’s break this down like we’re texting on a lazy Sunday morning — coffee in one hand, phone in the other.
☕ VWAP — “Where Everyone’s Hanging Out”
Think of VWAP (Volume Weighted Average Price) as the popular table in the cafeteria.
It’s where the average price is — weighted by how many shares actually traded there.
- If price is above VWAP → buyers are running the show.
- If price is below VWAP → sellers are calling the shots.
Traders love VWAP because it shows where “fair value” is for the day. It’s literally the market saying:
“This is where we’ve been hanging out most of the day — are you joining us, or nah?”
🎯 Support & Resistance — “The Floor and Ceiling”
Support = the floor where price tends to stop falling.
Resistance = the ceiling where price tends to stop rising.
Imagine price as a bouncy ball:
- When it hits support, it often bounces back up.
- When it hits resistance, it often smacks into it and comes back down.
The fun part? Once price finally breaks through support or resistance, those levels can flip.
It’s like kicking a hole in the ceiling — now it’s the new floor.
🎟 Strike Price — “Your Ticket to the Show”
Options traders, this one’s for you.
The strike price is basically the price your ticket says you can buy or sell the stock at.
- Buy a Call → You’re betting the stock will be above your strike price by expiration.
- Buy a Put → You’re betting it’ll be below your strike price.
Think of it like buying concert tickets:
- If you got a ticket for Row 5 at $100 but the same ticket is now selling for $200?
You’re thrilled. You could flip it and make a profit. - If ticket prices drop to $50? You overpaid, and that hurts.
⏳ Theta Decay — “Your Option’s Expiration Countdown”
Theta = time decay.
If you’ve ever left an avocado out too long, you get it.
Options lose value as time passes — even if the stock price doesn’t move.
That’s why I say, “Your options are like avocados — use them while they’re fresh.”
🧠 Why This Matters
Trading isn’t just numbers and charts — it’s language.
And once you understand the lingo, you stop feeling like an outsider and start seeing the story the market is telling you.
You don’t need to memorize every single term on day one — just start with a few and practice spotting them in real time. Before you know it, you’ll be throwing around words like VWAP and support levels like you’ve been doing it for years.
Your turn:
What trading term totally confused you when you first started? Drop it in the comments — I might just turn it into the next “Trading Like You’re Texting Your BFF” post.
Implied Volatility ,Gamma, & Theta Decay
Options Greeks: IV, Gamma & Theta — Explained Without the Headache
If you’ve been trading options for a hot minute, you’ve probably heard words like implied volatility, gamma, and theta decay thrown around like everyone was born knowing them. Truth is, these are just fancy ways of describing how your option is likely to behave—and once you understand them, you’ll see the market in a whole new light.
Let’s break it down simple and easy so you know how to work with them.
Implied Volatility (IV): The Market’s Mood Ring
Think of implied volatility (IV) as the market’s “nervous energy.”
High IV = people expect big price swings. That makes options more expensive because there’s more “what if” baked in.
Low IV = market is chill, expecting smaller moves. Options are cheaper.
Here’s the kicker: you can be right on the direction of the stock, but if you buy when IV is sky-high and it drops after your entry, your option can lose value even if the stock moves your way. (Been there, done that.)
Gamma: The Accelerator Pedal ( and my personal favorite)
Gamma tells you how quickly your option’s sensitivity (delta) changes when the stock moves.
High gamma = your option’s delta reacts fast. Like pressing down hard on a gas pedal—suddenly you’re flying.
Low gamma = more of a slow cruise.
This is why at-the-money short-dated options can feel like a rollercoaster. Gamma is juiced, so small moves in the stock can make your option’s delta whip around dramatically.
Theta Decay: The Silent Thief
Options are like avocados: they get less valuable just sitting around. That’s theta decay—the daily time erosion baked into your contract.
Buyers feel the pain (your option loses value each day).
Sellers collect the theta like rent money.
And here’s the sneaky part: the closer you get to expiration, the faster theta eats away at your option. Which is why holding onto cheap lotto tickets at the last minute often feels like watching sand fall through your fingers.
The Takeaway
When you’re trading options, it’s not just about “is the stock going up or down?” It’s also about:
What’s IV doing?
Is gamma about to make my ride smooth or wild?
How much theta is chewing away at my premium while I wait?
Mastering these three Greeks doesn’t just make you sound smart—it helps you trade smarter. You’ll stop asking “Why did my option lose value when I was right about the stock?” and start understanding the hidden forces at play.
👉 If this made sense, stick around—I’ve got plenty more everyday-style breakdowns coming. Because trading is tough enough without the jargon.
How to Play this Earnings Season Part 1: TSLA, META, AAPL
Just a quick disclaimer, if you’re new to my blog … I am not a licensed financial advisor and any investment carries risk , so always do your own due diligence before investing. I have been a full time day trader for two years and the information I am providing is based on my opinions and research but it in no way is intended as financial advice . I try to focus on strategy more than specific plays for this reason ..I hope to educate you and you can make decisions based on what you’ve learned here.
That being said … I absolutely love earnings season and this one in particular has some set ups that are looking like a few easier slam dunks than the last few earnings.
TSLA reporting January 29th
Deliveries were down, they have a Morningstar rating of one star which means they’re significantly overvalued, Wall Street analysts have an average price target of $336.96 which is about an 18% drop. On the surface, it sounds like it will be a miss and puts would be the way to go . However, if they’re guidance rocks ( robotics, cheaper cars, etc) .. they could miss earnings and the stock could go through the roof. If I play this, I’ll be getting a very expensive straddle ( a put and a call) .
META reporting January 29th
Meta is expected to beat expectations. They’ve increased ad revenue using generative AI, they’ve reduced costs, and already addressed their 2025 capex of $60- $65 billion for advancements in AI and state of the art data centers . It looks positive but anything AI related might continue to get hammered until the Deep Seek price tag is determined to be a lie.
Public service announcement:
With Mag 7 stocks during earnings, there is very high volatility and high volume . The safest way to play earnings is right up until the bell and close out and then start up again in the morning when you know what direction the wind is blowing. If you can’t afford to or you neglect to buy a put AND a call , you’re not daytrading… You’re gambling. Earnings is as high risk as it gets and there is no way to know you’re right if you only do one or the other.
AAPL reporting January 30th
Disappointing innovation, lower demand particularly in China, expectations on this one are a little bleak with an expected 15.5% downside .
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